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Reconnect, rebuild, and ride into your next chapter

Click here to Find trust, Build confidence, and Heal your heart.

GET OFF THE THERAPY COUCH AND INTO A SADDLE!

Saddle up with a Sexologist

Get off that therapy couch and into the saddle! Imagine trading the confines of a traditional therapy room or web session for the fresh air and calming presence of a horse. With a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Peer Support Specialist guiding the way, you'll explore the deeper layers of your relationship with yourself and others, while literally getting back in the saddle of life. Equine-assisted sessions bring a new, powerful dynamic to healing, offering a non-judgmental, nurturing environment to work through personal challenges. Embrace the transformative experience, where breakthrough moments happen on horseback!

No riding experience necessary

With over eight years of experience in the coaching space and over twenty years of experience with horses and teaching people how to work with horses, you will get to enjoy an experiential session with horses at your own pace, whether merely in their presence or learning to become comfortable around them.  

Mental/Emotional Benefits of equine sessions

 

  • Stress Reduction: The rhythmic motion of riding and connection with the animal have a calming, meditative effect that reduces cortisol (stress hormone) levels.
     
  • Confidence Building: Mastering new riding skills and forming a bond with a powerful animal boosts self-esteem and self-efficacy.
     
  • Emotional Regulation: Working with horses, who mirror human emotions, fosters awareness and management of emotional states.
     
  • Mindfulness and Presence: Riders must stay present, focusing on the horse and their body, helping quiet mental chatter and reduce anxiety.
     
  • Resilience and Problem-Solving: Riding involves adapting to dynamic situations, which strengthens mental flexibility and coping skills.
     
  • Connection and Trust: Building a relationship with the horse promotes trust, empathy, and social bonding skills.
     
  • Empowerment and Leadership: Directing a horse effectively teaches assertiveness, clear communication, and leadership skills.  

Physical Benefits of equine sessions

 

  • Core Strengthening: Maintaining balance on a moving horse naturally strengthens the core muscles (abs, back, and hips).
     
  • Improved Posture and Alignment: Riding helps improve body awareness, spinal alignment, and posture.
     
  • Balance and Coordination: Adapting to a horse’s movement improves overall balance and hand-eye coordination.
     
  • Flexibility: Horseback movements encourage natural stretching, especially in the hips, pelvis, and legs.
     
  • Fine and Gross Motor Skills: Handling reins, adjusting body weight, and grooming horses develop both types of motor skills.
     
  • Cardiovascular Health: Riding at various paces can improve heart and lung function.
     
  • Sensory Integration: Riding provides rich sensory input that enhances body awareness and regulation.

What if I am not ready to ride a horse?

No problem! You can still experience building trust, setting healthy boundaries, nonverbal communication, emotional attunement, confidence, and connection without the pressure of riding.   

What do I wear to an equine session?

For your session, please wear long pants and closed-toe shoes or boots. Dress in comfortable layers depending on the weather, and if you’ll be riding, a helmet will be required (we can provide one if needed). Avoid loose jewelry and strong scents. And don’t forget , a great attitude is the best accessory around horses!

Is this for couples or individuals?

Riding sessions are one-on-one to deepen your personal connection with the horse. For those who want to experience the magic together, groundwork sessions are perfect for couples or pairs to connect, grow, and share the experience side-by-side! 

MEET THE HORSES!

Vegas

Vegas thinks he's a celebrity, and honestly, he's not wrong. With his movie-star looks and "look at me!" attitude, Vegas will charm you into giving him scratches, snacks, and probably your heart.


But behind the swagger, Vegas is a master at helping people build confidence, presence, and leadership, because when you work with a horse who knows he’s special, you have to believe you're pretty special too!


Vegas has been part of the family from the very beginning. Bred and raised by our founder, he’s grown up surrounded by connection, care, and trust. His playful confidence and strong bond with people are a reflection of a life built on relationship, and now he’s ready to share that magic with you. 

Walter

Walter is basically your favorite grandpa in horse form. Sweet, wise, a little bit nosy, and always convinced you have treats hidden somewhere. He’s here for the hugs, the life advice, and helping you slow down and reconnect with what really matters.


Walter’s story is one of resilience. He was abandoned at a ranch for two years with little care, left to fend for himself. Despite everything, he’s learned to trust again, offering connection, patience, and wisdom to everyone he meets. When you spend time with Walter, you’re not just meeting a horse, you are experiencing the quiet strength of healing and second chances. 

Sometimes healing comes on four hooves.

Click Here to Meet Vegas & Walter

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