FAQ

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Sexology is the study of what people do sexually and how they think and feel about it. In the case of Building Intimacy, we include what people do in relationships and how they think and feel about it.

No. You can request an email session, book a call, or schedule a video session. Please see the "online appointments" section of the website.

A therapist takes a very different approach than a Sexologist. A therapist is trained to look back into your past and figure out "why" you are experiencing emotions or taking the actions you are.

A Sexologist works with you on present issues and what you want in the future. Sexology focuses on "how" to move forward by setting goals and establishing an action plan to move toward your personal, sexual, and/or relationship goals. 

While we do look at the past as a place where patterns may have developed, our area of focus is present and future.  We encourage our clients to reframe their view of "normal" to what is natural when it comes to sexuality.

Sexology can help with things like:

• Identifying behaviors and patterns in (dating or committed) relationships that are not serving you.
• Difficulties setting boundaries in relationships.
• Difficulty communicating in relationships.
• Anxiety around flirting and dating. Your coach may go on a "practice date" with you. No nudity, sexual, or erotic energy is exchanged on these dates.
• Help you gain clarity to reach your goals surrounding your sex life and/or your relationship.
• Identify your beliefs or blockages around sex or body image. 
• Provide accurate and shame-free information about sexual health (i.e., things our bodies do)
• Provide non-judgemental information about sexual practices
• Help develop self-confidence in and out of the bedroom.
• Help with sexual inconsistencies or changes. 
• Women's health issues
• Men's health issues
• Sexual trauma
• Mismatched libido with partner
• Painful intercourse
• Anxiety surrounding sexual performance
• Sexual health product information

Unfortunately, we do not take insurance at this time.

Physical domestic violence. If you are being physically abused, please text BEGIN to 88788, or call 800.799.7233

No. These are talk only sessions. There is no nudity, and no sexual or erotic exchange.

At the end of a session, some sort of play or practice to do on your own or with your partner may be suggested, but it is only what is relevant to your session and what you feel comfortable doing.

We arrive at your event with product on hand and present it in a fun, educational way. We recognize that not everyone has the same comfort level talking about these subjects and do our best to create a safe and comfortable space for everyone.

There is no nudity, sexual, or erotic energy exchanged at these events.  Demonstration products will be available to touch, smell, and taste. No products are applied to erogenous zones.

Yes. I carry a large inventory of products to purchase at the event. If I do not have an item you want, it will be drop-shipped to you.

We include a gift for the host at each event as thank you for inviting us into your space. As sales increase at the event, so do the rewards for you and your friends!

Yes! We do events for both women and men. It is at the host's discretion to allow multiple sexes.

No children under 18 are allowed to be on the premises until after the demonstration portion of the event is completed. This is a State law. They may be there during the shopping portion but are not allowed time in the shopping area. If a child is on the premises, the Sexologist will leave the event, and the booking fee will not be refunded.

Our founder was a Certified Sexual Health Educator for eight years with Pure Romance. Although we are currently an affiliate (i.e., you can purchase from our founder's Pure Romance website), we no longer have a consultant relationship with Pure Romance. 

We have a new relationship with a vendor that has access to many of the same products sold by Pure Romance but, that provides much more variety, inclusivity, and better prices!

As a Peer Support Specialists, we offer compassionate, lived-experience support for mental health recovery, trauma healing, relationship building, emotional regulation, and life transitions, helping you reconnect with your strengths, your voice, and your future.

Julie doesn't approach healing as a professionals behind a desk. She walk with you as someone who's lived it, survived it, and found a way forward. You are not broken. You are becoming. And you don’t have to do it alone.

You want to talk to someone who has been there.

• Peer Support Specialists offer lived experience, not just clinical knowledge — meaning they truly understand what you are going through from the inside out.
   

You are feeling stuck in your recovery or healing journey.

• Whether it's mental health, trauma recovery, addiction, grief, or relationship struggles, peer support can help you find hope and momentum again.
   

You need support without judgement.

• Peer support offers a safe, non-judgmental space to share your story, feelings, fears, or goals - no labels, no shame.
   

You want help building confidence and self-worth.

• Working with a peer can help you recognize your strengths, rebuild your self-esteem, and feel empowered to move forward.
   

You are navigating a major life transition. 

• Whether you are healing from a breakup, divorce, job loss, identity shift, grief, or another life change, peer support provides encouragement and stability during uncertain times.
   

You are feeling overwhelmed and do not know where to start.

• Peer Support Specialists help break down recovery into manageable steps - offering guidance, emotional support, and real-world strategies to move forward.
   

You want practical tools from someone who has walked the path.

• Peer specialists offer practical, experience-tested tools for emotional regulation, healthy coping, setting boundaries, building resilience, and self-advocacy.
   

You need a reminder that healing is possible,.

• Peer support provides real, living proof that change, growth, and healing are achievable, even when it feels impossible.